Early climax after breakup

🌋 Early climax
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So my first relationship was when i first had sex and I can easily say that I was at my peak sexual health during this time. My first time i lasted nearly two hours and could control when I came.

Unfortunately I had a very negative break up and went down the route of finding sexual relationships with girls on tinder which always ended up with me ejaculating really quickly.

Whats strange is after I have gotten over the past relationship I had mentally, I still have the early ejaculation problem in my current relationship, and even though my partner doesn’t make it a problem its a massive one for me.

Has anyone experienced this or know why it may happen, I went from being perfect at sex to ejaculating in less than 20 seconds.

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I understand what you are going through. My first relationship was only based on sex and no actual love or bonding experience. After the first one I got into a bad one where sadly my masculinity got hurt. To add to all of this I had a big time, almost 7 years of porn watching till that point. Right now I am in a healthy relationship and getting better but sadly I ve put and am putting so much pressure on me that I find no pleasure in healthy intimacy with my partner. It happens to us because of either putting to much pressure on us or rushing out of fear of losing our erection and frustrating our partners.