I’ve only just started having sexual relations with other people and trying new things. I’m very young so haven’t yet had sex or even received a BJ. This is because my first encounter with another female (a HJ) went extremely and embarrassingly wrong. I finished very early on both occasions where this happened and this has given me a deathly fear of trying anything further. I’m here trying to find help and any thing that worked for you guys. Anything will help please drop me some tips and advice. Thanks.
I’ve had a few sexual relations now (I’m also still young though in the grand scheme of things). I can’t say don’t worry about it because it happens, we all worry, but I will say 1 or 2 occasions will happen… In my case most occasions are very quick, over the years I have also had occasions where I’ve lasted longer with different positions etc.
Take your time, don’t stress about it. 95% of girls don’t really care, just learn how to please them and they’ll be happy. With time you’ll get the hang of your own body as well and I think following the advice on here, doing kegal exercises and staying fit and healthy all help - I’ve found I last longest the same day as doing some intense exercise weirdly, normally rugby games (I don’t know the science but that’s worked for me)
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The first time I had sex (a long time ago, I must admit), I ejaculated really fast. I don’t remember exactly how long it lasted, but I know it was just a few minutes tops. I was super nervous, the whole thing was stressful, and i don’t really think I enjoyed it that much. However, that changed with time, you learn, you get experience, and it should get better.
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