For as long as I can remember

For as long as I can remember, I have always struggled with Early Ejaculation. In all my relationships, I thought it was normal to cum so quickly. I figured that meant she had some good stuff, if you know what I mean. It wasn’t until I got married, that isn’t suppose to be that quick. Like… 5-30 seconds quick. I have never spoken about this to anyone other than my wife. I would love to be able to fix this issue.

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You’re in the right place to improve your stamina!!

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I also didn’t know it wasn’t normal to cum right away from thrusting. I watched guys in porn pounding steadily for many minutes and thought it must somehow be fake or that those guys were exceptional. With my current girlfriend, for our first year I only grinded against her and rocked our back and forth, and she liked it a lot and would come pretty easily just from that. Once in a while I would feel inspired to thrust in and out but only for a few strokes because I would feel my cum building. But one night we were going for a second time so I was able to last longer and I pounded he steadily for more than 10 seconds. Her eyes got huge and she said, “I love it, more, pound me.” I panicked and emptied my balls into her in less than 5 seconds. So I’ve been working on this issue now with Zoloft, numbing spray and reverse kegels so I can give my girlfriend the pounding that she wants and deserves.