I generally don’t have problems getting hard, but I cum extremely quickly from vaginal penetration. We have tried a lot of oral stimulation and surprisingly, I last a LOT longer when my gf is going down on me. But when it comes to vaginal penetration for some reason I just don’t have the same results. Has anyone here experienced the same thing?
There are some other issues we have in our relationship as well but I would like to start off with this one at the moment. Thank you for any and all advice!
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That happens to me, I generally try and find someplace near the point of no return, run up to it, stop for a little bit to calm down and then if I can squeeze the kegels hard enough everything goes well after haha
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I have similar problem, I’m always either having to pause during which neither of us really enjoy or just admit defeat.
To compensate I’ve found I’m really good with my hands, so I always try to make my partner satisfied before or after. I’m glad to be able to please her, but I’m just never sexually satisfied myself.
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When I was younger, I had that issue while wearing condoms, it was weird. I could control myself when not wearing protection, but as soon as I had the condom on, I would cum quickly. Later, I also started experiencing that rapid ejaculation without condoms. I do stop, breathe, squeeze and manage to control some. Also, since I have issues with erection, sometimes my partner gives me a lot of oral sex before penetration, but the thing is that the erection is really hard right before cumming, so I would penetrate her and almost immediately release. I recently had an experience with good erection, control and it was great, but I had been taking taldenafil, do that might have been the reason.
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I have had this issue for last year or so. I tried psychotherapy for a bit and that helped a little. One method that I have tried is to masturbate before sex and go really slow when in vaginal penetration. So I go really slow and that definitely helps but its still not back to my normal levels
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Quick ejaculation during vaginal sex has been a constant in my life and it’s why I signed up for the mojo app. Wish I had answers for us! I don’t feel like I have any of the stress or psychological barriers that the internet claims I have. Happily married. Three kids. No erection problems. I just cum right away and it sucks. Hopefully mojo, practice, and effort will help…
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