I’m a 22 year old guy with porn issues messing up my confidence and erection. I know it’s porn causing these issues but I can’t seem to stop. I try to stop for about a month and just got back to it.
It’s really messing up my confidence, I used to be very funny and never found it difficult to chat to girls now there’s no motivation cos I feel
Like aye I can do everything myself. I know the trigger is twitter cos my twitter is so messed up that anything I search relates to porn. I can just look up or type white girls and next thing, my whole page is fill with porn of white girls. I try to stay off twitter sometimes but that’s the only app I really like.
My question is, me stopping porn and actually focusing on my self help my erection get better??
Yes bro I would uninstall the app if I were you. Mine was Reddit, so easy to slip back into it when you’ve got it right there on your phone. Definitely helped me focus on being with someone else and being in the moment. With porn it’s just you and no judgement and I think it can become unhealthy if it becomes the only way you can get off.
You just need to start chatting to them again and put the energy you use on yourself when watching porn into enjoying others company. You might be awkward or not as smooth as you used to be but as soon as you find that person who gives back the same level of chat you’ll be golden. It’s all a mind game man and if your worried porn is ruining it then it’s likely it is. Even as a placebo it will feed into your anxiety that it is causing a problem.
Hope that makes some kinda sense.