This is my first day trying this app. It all seems very interesting so far, the community seems great and I’m looking forward to working through the exercises. I have a lot of the same issues as many guys here - inner critic etc. One thing I find is that when I have sex with my wife I don’t really get much physical sensation and that gets my inner critic going (to be crude - “this feels like throwing a hit dog down a hallway, you’re not getting stimulated enough to maintain this erection, you’ll never climax like this”) and sure enough that’s what happens. Obviously I know this is all in my head and not my wife’s fault. The same thing happens when she gives me oral sex or hand jobs. Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this and if the physical sensation becomes more pleasurable as you work through the exercises on this app? Right now sex is about as much fun for me as doing a cardio workout.
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Hey bud. I reckon that the lack of sensation might be due to fight-flight response. The more I have relaxed the better it feels. At certain points when I’ve been stressed about ED or otherwise sex isn’t this amazing thing and merely going through the motions. The mental resilience parts of mojo will help for sure. All the best.