Advice for ED during sex, but fine when alone

Saw a course that said -

You can be confident your penis is working fine physically
You can get and stay hard when you’re alone. So any issues you experience with a partner are probably situational or psychological.

That was really powerful for me to know I’m fine and just need to rewire mentally

2 Likes

Me too. I’m in the same boat. Hard as a rock when masterbating. But when with the wife, as soon as I put it in it goes soft. It’s destroying our relationship. I hope MOJO can fix us. I’m devastated.

3 Likes

Working on that exact same issue. There is something going on in my mind that I have yet to uncover.

1 Like

I’d encourage everyone here to just work on what the Mojo app takes you through, and be open to what it says about psychological issues around ED.

I’m now on day 16 of using the app after finding it because I was having the same issues, going soft in the middle of sex, and it had killed my confidence and I thought I would be able to think my way out of it or fix it.

I’m happy to say that using the meditations and methods from here, this morning me and my wife had amazing sex for the first time in months! I noticed myself going soft at one point and just kept calm and used what I’d learnt so far, and thankfully was then in a position to really go for it.

It’ll take time, patience, some self discovery and honesty, but definitely worth it :+1:t3:

4 Likes

What meditation techniques do you find works for you?

Same here - rock solid when she’s arousing me, but when I start to penetrate, I slowly go soft. I must admoth though that I’ve been using Mojo for 2 weeks and I’m definitely staying harder for longer. We’re both pleased by that! I’m hoping that following the mojo methods, I’ll not even have to think about meditation and breathing and just keephard like I used to.