Pleasing my Girlfriend

I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now, and while being my first proper girlfriend, she was also my first time. However overtime I’ve found out I do not last long at all, a lot of the time under a minute. So I joined this app to hopefully increase that to more than that. I’ve found the only way I last longer is with alcohol, as it relaxes you and stop you getting over excited, which is my main issue. Yeah I enjoy the sex but it is nowhere near long enough, and even though my girlfriend says she doesn’t mind deep down I know she isn’t always fully pleased. So hopefully this app can help calm my nerves and excitement, and just teach me to relax myself and control how long I can last. Also, any starter bits of advice would be much appreciated, just hope I can fix this premature ejaculation soon.

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I can’t help with lasting longer, but I will say go all in. But not at once.
Does she enjoy getting oral?
Have you tried toys? A lot of guys are scared to introduce toys as a substitute for the real thing….
Talk to her. It’s been 2 yrs. I’d hope you are comfortable having serious conversations.

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I hadn’t thought of that, thankyou, I’m gonna speak to her soon about it all and try introduce toys…….She does really like oral so maybe I should just slow the whole process down and try that out more

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Consider trying different speeds, depth, etc. remember a girls g spot is just inside so you don’t have to go all the way in all the time. There’s so much you can do to pleasure her without having to just thrust her. Good luck bro!

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Hi Chaps… a member of the community mentioned a website called OMGyes.

I’ve had a look at this and it has a few tips on “getting her off….”

It’s good because it has given me the confidence to spend more time communicating and thinking about the subtleties of giving her a fcukin great time, ……before I even get the “old fella” out….

This way I last longer, and it takes a bit of pressure off…

Also if you’ve already “pulled the trigger” you can get back down there and keep them coming for her……

Just a thought….

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Slowing down is the best approach. Do your box breaths before you even start anything and close your mind to any thoughts about not lasting. Focus on pleasuring her first in other ways as the other guys have said-lots of touch, oral, toys and what ever else you can imagine. Talk to her more, Get her to communicate what she likes in detail. Tell her what you like too. When you feel you’re getting too excited just stop and take deep breaths even if you have to do that often only after short intervals. It’s all about control and once you learn to use your breath to control your own body, you’ll be right but it takes practice. When you’re on your own practice edging for as long as possible and just enjoy the sensations without coming. This will help you believe you can last.

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Thankyou bro, I will consider this and try new things, much appreciated!

Yeah 100% I definitely do feel like I can continue to giver her a good time even after I’ve “finished” as sometimes I don’t do that. Will have a look at this website though and see if that helps, thanks!

Ahh ok yeah, that makes sense, that’s really useful actually, i definitely need to learn to control my self and the thoughts in my head, so going to try out and think about the things you said, thanks man!