I can't get my girlfriend to cum + premature ejaculation

Recently I tried going for the strategy of getting my girlfriend to cum first by trying to eat her out and fingering (sometimes a combo of both), but I ended up doing that for more than an hour with her. She would moan and feel pleasure but I didn’t want to go down on her until she came, as the title card says she still wasn’t able to, but even when I eventually went down on her I came within the first 2 minutes. The only things I can think of is working on my techniques (I did curl my fingers to try to hit her gspot) or getting a toy. Luckily she’s okay with how it is somehow but I still want her to climax too. Any tips? Personally I don’t mind ejaculated too early but I want her to cum too is the main part, although I will probably continue mojo and maybe see a doctor.

Side note:
Sometimes when I put the condom on it just kills my erections. Why??

What is your approach to clitoral stimulation?

i will just say every girl is different and like different thing, my wife canot finish without penetration, but if she is on top she can finish fast (if in mood). If not in mood then need to get her in mood if possible

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Yo bro, I was in a relationship for two years with a girl, I did everything and she was the same as your girl moan and love it, but never came. I’ve entered a new relationship and she comes whenever she wants with me. It’s a mental thing for them, hopefully this makes you feel better because bro I know how you feel as soon as I made this girl come I was like wow so it wasn’t me all along.

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Can she bring herself to Orgasm? If so, let her take the lead. If not, she may not be able to reach orgasm. It may be something she needs to work on as well.

The same here, when I put on the cd it dies down, I think it’s the expectation that when we’re putting it on, if we don’t do it smooth enough or something, it kills our erection. If we are self critical and very reflective, as we are, these things fill my head when putting it on. Keep it up brother

Communication.
What does it for when solo?
Finger? Vibe? Both?

How to know the girlfriend cum. I do all the things but never knew whether she cum or not