At times I can’t cum

⏳ Delayed ejaculation
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At times I can’t cum. I’ll go for 30-45 minutes. At times I’m going really hard, it becomes hard core and I feel I lose connection and tenderness. And at times I don’t come at all. I get physically tired and need a breather, then I lose the erection without cumming. She gets to cum but feels bad like she isn’t beautiful or good because I didn’t cum. It’s impacting the relationship. Any tips on where I can go in this app to get help with controlling when I do cum?

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Sounds like your in your head and focusing on cumming instead of just enjoying it. I’ve had similar experiences where I haven’t cum then afterwards when I’m alone and still horny, I’ve masturbated and cum. It’s the performance pressure we put on ourselves rather than just going with the flow.

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This happens to me too, she’s really enjoying it and having orgasms but for some reason I just can’t cum. It’s not causing a huge problem as I’m recently out of a sexless marriage and we were actually more worried about cumming too soon but I’d like to try and resolve this because it’s not every time but more often than not

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I am having a similar experience / any input from the MOJO staff?

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You’re putting pressure on yourself to cum, I sometimes have this issue. Using this app and being more “in the moment” and focusing on what feels good, rather than worrying about cuming has helped me a lot. It’s challenging when you’re in your own head, but losing yourself and almost having an empty mind whilst having sex has really helped me.

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Wow. This is my exact issue. No problem getting hard and staying hard, but I just can’t finish the deal so to speak. My girlfriend self-respect is slipping because she doesn’t think I find Her attractive. She’s super hot, but she has taken this personally. I will come more times they’re not, but I’d really like to come every time if anything for her self esteem.

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Same here!!
I lose it/struggle to keep it up, then when she goes home or I get home, I can get hard as a rock and it’s Fukn great!

This app is helping me get out of my head!