I’m 27 and still have yet to cum from having sex. For years I watched and masturbated to porn, but I’ve cut that shit out like a month ago. Both my partner and I believe it’s just me being in my head keeping myself from like submitting to pleasure. Maybe I’m just like feeling shy or getting stage fright that’s holding me back from being able to cum when fucking. Just looking for tips and advice as I want to cum for my partner and give her that ultimate validation
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I had this issue as well and I found the only time I finished back when I was experiencing this was when I had sex spontaneously. I’m not sure if this would help you but I found that when I wasn’t assuming or planning on sex and it just happened that I wouldn’t be in my own head and was able to finish. Good luck and I hope you are able to resolve your issue!
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Message to OP…
it’s not a good mindset to see you cumming as the ‘ultimate validation’. One thing penises don’t like is a heavy weight of expectation…
Just vary it up. I sometimes have a hard time cumming from intercourse (my wife no longer takes the pill, cannot tolerate having an IUD, and with my own ED issues wearing a condom reduces sensations that I can maintain the firmness for penetration). So when I feel myself going soft to the point where it seems it won’t wake up I will pull out continue to kiss my wife all over and whisper in her ear something I’d like for her to do. Then she often kisses me in all different places. I wake up when she starts licking my balls and jerking me at the same time (wasn’t expecting it) and it worked! Volcano!!!