First day joining here and have here positive things.
My problem is I just can’t reach climax
When I pleasure myself with porn. It’s everytime without fail.
But when then missus and I have sex it’s nothing
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You are lucky. People thar cum in 2 seconds like me wish they can last longer like you
no you don’t, it’s extremely frustrating.
no you don’t, it’s extremely frustrating
I agree. My gf gets very upset and shuts down or leaves because she feels like she is the problem or she isn’t pretty enough, feel good enough, or just unable to get me off. So lasting a long time isn’t necessarily a good thing and her reaction has caused a lot of added anxiety which switches me to fight or flight mode and the problem is made worse.
i have the same shit i don’t know why though
Oh so you are saying that you having no problem cumming with your missus, but you can’t cum with porn?
If that’s the case, I say throw the porn in the shredder, you don’t need it. Be with your missus only. I know Mojo says that porn is neutral, but I think it’s detrimental if you’re in a relationship IMHO.
Yea people say it’s lucky…it’s not… it’s very frustrating and leads to confidence issues. Honestly I’ve only found it cutting down the things you are focusing on down. Lights off sex has become my go to if im gonna cum. That way I can hyper focus on the stimulus. I struggle with a micro prolactinoma and decreased testosterone also.