Overthinking and reliant on Pills

🍆 Erection issues
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Hey guys. My problems started few years ago as i started to date my ex girlfriend. The first time we had sex i got super nervous and went into fight or flight. Never had problems before that, didn’t even know that could happen.

In our two year relationship this only happened once again as i was super stressed. These two scenarios planted the first seed of doubt and somehow i just kept thinking about it.

As we broke up i didnt date for a long time. But as i started i didnt want this to happen again. I tried sildenafil and i kept taking it ever since then (maybe 1 1/2 years) to the point where i think i cant perfom without them.

Problem is, i travel frequently due to work and i am never more than 2 months at one place. I do date, but i never build a deep connection to feel super comfortable with a person and to work on my problems, because eventually something awkward could happen.

In general i am stressed and a overthinker, maybe you have some advice for me.

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I feel we are the same person, I swear. I always get nervous even I’m just making out with a girl now. But so far; I have managed to start hard during oral and handjobs. Just be present, and think positive.

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if you’re using the larger “on use” doses, you might wanna talk to your physician about the daily version instead. keeps it in your bloodstream with less side effects. then, working with partner, ween yourself off to every 2 days, three times a week, bi weekly, done.

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Thank you! „Daily version“ we are talking about stuff like Tadalafil?

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Youre right, i its all just in our head, but we will solve this :pray:

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