Is anyone find theirselves in the situation where they are only aroused by very kinky and specific situation?
I find myself in that case and I am struggling to find “normal” scenarios arousing at all…
Is anyone find theirselves in the situation where they are only aroused by very kinky and specific situation?
I find myself in that case and I am struggling to find “normal” scenarios arousing at all…
I think it’s common to get “stuck” on a thought or kink and wiring yourself. It’s also easy to keep thinking or fantasizing about it and cumming to it so easily.
I agree with you. I’m cutting out porn and fapping for the foreseeable future to try to rewire my brain
I’ve just joined, I think this is similar to my situation.
Wanted you to know you’re not alone. I also have trouble to get hard or finish outside of the kink scenario. A normal scene or even just oral with a partner doesn’t do it.
That has been the story of my life.
Yes; I’ve spent most of my adult life indulging a fetish, mostly by porn. It got to the point that’s all that would get me off. I still enjoy that, but I’ve cut the porn out and noticed a huge shift. Performance and pleasure are both massively improved
Kink is normal! Everyone has a kink at some point in their lives. Don’t think of it as a bad thing!
I have a similar problem to this. The issue I face is that I cut out porn for a while and then when I’m getting to know a new woman, the anticipation starts to get to me and I start to get too horny before we reach the stage of having sex. This triggers me to starting watching ‘normal’ porn and masturbating again and then slowly the porn becomes kinkier till I’m back to square 1.
Yeah Mate, I’m right here with you, I feel like I’ve totally destroyed the sexual part of my brain with my kink, which I’ve had my entire life, and now it’s affecting my normal relationship. I’m here to try and not break free from it, cause I know it’s just a part of me, but learn to enjoy all the other stuff that comes with having a loving partner