A kink that I can use during sex

I’m not going to go into details but this kink isn’t anything to do with having sex but it’s been the only way I could get off and when I finally had sex I couldn’t get fully hard but it was still pleasing my partner but I couldn’t cum. She tried sucking and jerking me off it felt great but there was cum. I’ve been trying to overcome this kink but I fear my brain has been hardwired to it.

Are you attracted to the female body? If yes, then you are fine. It is totally possible to recondition yourself to other stimuli through masturbation. Just stop fapping to your kink and focus on more realistic fantasies/visuals and sensations. Your kink will probably never go away though, but that’s ok, just better do not engage with it anymore.

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