Do I have a problem? No matter how attractive the girl is I need to fantasize about something kinkier or someone hotter in order to cum. I do watch porn. Is this a sign I need to stop? Is it fixable?
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A lot of guys do this. Myself included.
I have not cum in a pussy, another hand or a mouth in years. Partly because frosty the snow x wife wasn’t in the mood…. New gf. Way better looking than frosty. I was a regular porn user for years!
I’ve cut down on solo and porn like 90%. Still can’t finish anywhere other than
My hand but it’s getting easier to do so with my gf. She’s super encouraging and supportive. On her cycle last night so she didn’t want to F so it was my turn. When her neck got sore she grabbed the line and started in with her hand. After a while I took over and she encouraged me to cum on her face as her head lay on my chest and she played with my balls. When I told her I was gonna cum, she unexpectedly put her mouth on my dickhead and sucked me off!!! OMG!!
My point is- be open and honest with your partner about what they could do to help! I had suggested a while back that she could possibly help by being more kinky and talking naughty. She has opened up and been direct in what she’d like. Last night she was encouraging me to cum on her face. A few mornings ago she asked me to finger her as she used a toy on her clit. We’re early 50s and she doesn’t have a lot of experience… but she’s super willing to try.
I’m hoping this is a breakthrough!!
Good luck fellas!!
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Lube. She grabbed the lube. 
Wow, she sounds great fun. Swings and roundabouts, your problem aside, sounds like your bread landed butter side up with the new GF.
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Yeah… I pretty much hit the lotto with this one. She’s crazy about me and it’s mutual. Last night was my Bday and we had another session similar to what I described… Except in pillow talk later she said she’d like to be tied up… Apparently we like the same things… Ive restrained her a couple times and she loved it. I cant wait to try it again. I asked if she’s ok with switching and she wants to! Tho she’ll need some coaching as she’s not super confident… To Be Continued… (BIG Grin!)