Not being able to cum

I had sex recently for the first time in my life, got it up fine but however due to i’m guessing nerves i just couldn’t cum, no matter how much i jerked she jerked sucked whatever, is this a issue or something that’ll go away with time?

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Happened to me also during my first time. It was all nerves. Man, I remember having the most insane blue balls after that…
It became better pretty soon and I would reach orgasm quite quickly during PIV. I could never cum during pure oral (without hands) however and it’s the same for most guys I guess. But that’s fine, just let her jerk it or jerk it yourself while she’s sucking on the tip. Cuming in a girl’s mouth feels amazing.

I developed actual delayed ejaculation years later, but this was independent of that.