Hi guys,
My partner and I have been in a monogamous relationship for the last 11 years and have always had great sex the two us.
In the last 6 month we have organically started to open our relationship and have had a few threesomes and foursomes (with another couple). However, when someone else is involved, something switches in my mind and I can’t get it hard anymore. The last few times I even took Viagra to avoid the embarrassment.
The next day, I always have sex with my partner with the best erections.
Does any of you have experience with this?
Advice is much appreciated 
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Yeah that’s totally me too. My partner and I play separately, not together, but the same thing happens to me. With my husband I (usually) can get hard with relative ease because I feel safe and I know I’m totally loved and accepted with or without a hardon. But it’s much more difficult when I hookup or visit a bathhouse. Erection quality in those situations is always a gamble. Sometimes great, sometimes non-existent.
I’m on phase 6 of mojo and I see some progress. Still hit or miss, but at least I’m less anxious about it and it gives me hope I can achieve consistent quality erections in future.
Hang in there!
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