Just started seeing this person. The first couple times we had sex, it was like fireworks. The last couple times, I’ve had no issues getting erect but once we’ve moved on from making out/foreplay and getting ready for penetrative, my erection gets soft or goes away. I’m super turned on the entire time. I always get them off and make sure they’re taken care of so it’s not like nothing is happening. They say they’re having fun and it’s not a problem, but it is for me. I’m probably making things more difficult for myself but it’s difficult not to get frustrated.
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Def experienced similar. It helped me to stop expecting and waiting for my body to react or feel a certain way. Focus on enjoying the moments with your partner and indulge in what you love about them and their body. Once you focus on pleasure the body can take care of itself.
It also helps to ask for manual stimulation if you need it.
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