In recent weeks, I’ve really started to get into my own head. I’ve never had any kind of issues (at least I thought) but just found it really difficult to finish from intercourse.
Whereas I initially made progress, I’ve fallen off a bit of a cliff. I’ve now started panicking more when I don’t get hard. I feel a weird kind of shame about not being in the mood for sex.
I know the things I need to get better at, but getting better at them is not proving to be a straightforward task .
hey man i hear you. i dont think i have the correct answer but i think something that might help is to be just honest about it with your partner. it removes a lot of that self pressure and they usually dont think its a big deal. i still struggle even after my honesty about it but it feels better to not feel like its something i need to hide or be ashamed about
It’s a real tough thing. Even though I’m still struggling- talking to my partner has really helped. She has been very supportive. I have really found that the fantasy activities has helped with my libido.