Got into a fresh relationship, been gaining and losing an erection during sex, sometimes can’t at all. Finally starting having good progress then all of a sudden can’t even get it up when we’re both in the mood
I am in the same boat - single for two years after having been in two relationships for 27 yrs collectively- sex wasn’t an issue early on in my marriage but as our relationship waned so did sex and my reliance on porn. My ex wife was my first sexual experience practiced abstinence until we got engaged. During my divorce I started a new relationship and had sexual challenges the first time we tried but that’s slowly changed with pills until we had a very fulfilling sex life. That relationship ended over two years ago and I don’t practice casual sex I’m in a new relationship now and the first time we tried I could not get erect
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Yes. I’m experiencing the same thing. It genuinely makes me want to give up on everything. I’m nearly 40, and all of my mates are having kids and settling down, while my girlfriend is becoming convinced that I’m either not attracted to her, asexual or even gay because I can’t get and maintain an erection when I’m with her.