I’ve had a partner for 8+ years now and everything is ok, no erection issues. We went open after 6 years and I realized I cannot have sex with anyone the first time I meet them. I am aroused, turned on and attracted but I stay soft. I even pre-cum but it won’t get up. I have a fast heartbeat and heavy breathing and I cannot control it. Even during massage. I feel relaxed but as soon when I turned around and I am about to receive happy ending, it won’t get up. It’s really frustrating and I gave up on even trying, but everytime I would be about to do something I just keep thinking about failure.
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I’ve been in your position, especially around happy ending messages! The exercises here around relaxation breathing and addressing my inner critic have helped me improve in this area
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