Back when I was 15 years old I attempted to have sex for the first time. I was unable to get hard and I didn’t understand why.
This has created off and on psychological performance issues. I’m 32 now and have had long term relationships with no issues. I can’t seem to shake this permanently though. Did anyone else experience this their first time?
Is it the case that it happens with your first time (or times) with a new partner but fades once you get into a relationship?
If so that’s my sitch too. I was with someone aged 15-20, a couple of ONS aged 20, then long term relationship 20-36 (marriage and kids), and new thing just starting age 38.
I think the first time with a new partner I’m basically wanting to make a good first impression and get in my own head. Once I’m comfortable and relaxed that goes away and I can just enjoy it. I’m doing Mojo to basically fast track to that headspace. Oddly enough I managed to not get PA a couple of times during a brief period of being single and having ONS as a 20-year-old, but I was probably a lot more body confident then as I’m 60lbs heavier and 18 years older than I was then!