My girlfriend feels insecure due to my erection issues

Despite what I may tell her no matter what she seems to feel a little bit at fault for the fact that I can’t finish without me having to basically just use my hand even when she’s there. I literally cannot climax from oral or her hand and I maintain an erection but it will fade soon after she stops. Any advice for what I can say to make her feel better? She’s fully aware of my problems and supports me but it’s still difficult and disappointing.


I explained how mine affected me mentally and that perhaps eith more practice things would begin to be more natural. She was receptive and after “more practice” things began to flow more smoothly. As I work on the road this is a repetitive issue.

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