Losing my erection

I am a 41 years old man and I am in a relationship with a beautiful 21 years old girl who I love very much. I started to struggle and keep it hard at the beginning when we start to have sex, but she was very comprehensive. Despite of that, I always feel very insecure and anxious and think that she will leave me due to my problem. At some point I manage to keep my erections and we had amazing sex multiple time, but recently this problem came back and I am feeling very frustrated, specially because she started to feel insecure and she think that she is the problem. I have been trying to explain her that everything it is in my mind, but the whole situation just gives me more anxiety and I am very nervous to sexually approach to her.

Talking to her about the situation is the best thing to do I will let her know it’s not her and it’s in your head I’m currently dealing with this as well unfortunately the more I think about it the worst it gets even with pills

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Good advice. It will be important to communicate your fears, hopefully she can reassure you - so that you can relax and enjoy the love making. : )