I lost my erection after I told her I wanted her

Hi, I’m new here and I have a girlfriend whom I love and respect a lot but now she thinks that she doesn’t know me anymore because of how my performance has been lately.
She came with me to my place tonight after I just finished writing my exam which has been stressing me out alongside other stuff. We had some food immediately after we got home and cuddled for a while before we started making out and It wasn’t long until I got hard from it and suggested that we do the deed since it’d be a shame to waste the erection and that I wanted her, mind you I really did want her, I still do, but after some foreplay we were supposed to go to the next stage but my penis went flaccid and now she thinks that she doesn’t turn me on anymore and that it’s as if I’m pretending to like the things that she does to me. I tried telling her this was not the case but it didn’t help that this was not the first time this has happened.

I don’t know what to do because I love her and I’m planning on being with her for life and I’m scared she’ll leave me because with all this happening I’m getting terrible in bed and not because I’m not old, I’m in my early 20s.


Tell her what you wrote here, if you love her get a professional to tell her your problem too. She needs hard facts to believe that it’s not her. My girlfriend thought the same, then I showed her this app and told her I suffered erection issues. In the meantime work on fixing those boners


I did it, earlier today I told her about my situation and about the app and she told me she understands and I believe her because she was genuinely paying attention to what I told her, she raised some concerns about how long it might take for things to go back to normal and I couldn’t give her a straight answer because I’m not sure too but I’m certain prepared to face whatevers going with me.
Her mood changed back after I talked to her about this, so she knows that she isn’t the problem.

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