Hi, I’m new here and I have a girlfriend whom I love and respect a lot but now she thinks that she doesn’t know me anymore because of how my performance has been lately.
She came with me to my place tonight after I just finished writing my exam which has been stressing me out alongside other stuff. We had some food immediately after we got home and cuddled for a while before we started making out and It wasn’t long until I got hard from it and suggested that we do the deed since it’d be a shame to waste the erection and that I wanted her, mind you I really did want her, I still do, but after some foreplay we were supposed to go to the next stage but my penis went flaccid and now she thinks that she doesn’t turn me on anymore and that it’s as if I’m pretending to like the things that she does to me. I tried telling her this was not the case but it didn’t help that this was not the first time this has happened.
I don’t know what to do because I love her and I’m planning on being with her for life and I’m scared she’ll leave me because with all this happening I’m getting terrible in bed and not because I’m not old, I’m in my early 20s.