Mutual support for men who have sex with men

Great to hear you’re doing well dude. Would be really interested to hear about your experiences with autosuggestion.

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Something I’ve been trying for my porn needs has been himeros.tv. It’s really interesting in that it forces me to view and look at other kinds of porn/sex acts. The models are diverse and there are guided sessions as well.
It seems to be helpful for me because I’m shifting out of the “quick hardcore porn of all cumming gods” into a different, more exotic experience. Don’t get me wrong. There is still hot content. A lot is just different.

It is a pay site so heads up. I’m not affiliated so don’t ask me anything about it. It’s just another tool I’ve been using to help me.

Hi everyone!

New here and so embarrassed. The last 6 months I’ve been getting really nervous before engaging in sex. I can get a semi erection before, but when I start giving oral I start thinking “is he enjoying it” my mind starts racing then, bam I’m out of commission. Last night this happened while I was receiving oral, my mind started going all over the place and I couldn’t get it up again. Any advice is much appreciated

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Very similar to my situation. We have been together 36 years and are still in love. It is a good thing we are vers as we can just switch gears if my little brain is not cooperating. He initially was and mentally still is more of a bottom than me which is why I’m here seeking help. He is happy that I finally got Trimix so we can fuck like bunnies like we used to but ideally I wouldn’t have to be prepared with a shot that I have to shoot into my penis as part of our foreplay. It does work really well though but it does take longer to cum which can sometimes be okay.

That being said, we like to have special guests in the bedroom from time to time and although my husband is comfortable with me taking the shot, I’m uncomfortable about it with others so try to hide it due to the embarrassment. It makes for a very anxious evening for me unless I can quietly slip away for a shot.

Pills work to help get me erect if I’m not expecting to top…