Great to hear you’re doing well dude. Would be really interested to hear about your experiences with autosuggestion.
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Something I’ve been trying for my porn needs has been himeros.tv. It’s really interesting in that it forces me to view and look at other kinds of porn/sex acts. The models are diverse and there are guided sessions as well.
It seems to be helpful for me because I’m shifting out of the “quick hardcore porn of all cumming gods” into a different, more exotic experience. Don’t get me wrong. There is still hot content. A lot is just different.
It is a pay site so heads up. I’m not affiliated so don’t ask me anything about it. It’s just another tool I’ve been using to help me.
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Hi everyone!
New here and so embarrassed. The last 6 months I’ve been getting really nervous before engaging in sex. I can get a semi erection before, but when I start giving oral I start thinking “is he enjoying it” my mind starts racing then, bam I’m out of commission. Last night this happened while I was receiving oral, my mind started going all over the place and I couldn’t get it up again. Any advice is much appreciated
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Very similar to my situation. We have been together 36 years and are still in love. It is a good thing we are vers as we can just switch gears if my little brain is not cooperating. He initially was and mentally still is more of a bottom than me which is why I’m here seeking help. He is happy that I finally got Trimix so we can fuck like bunnies like we used to but ideally I wouldn’t have to be prepared with a shot that I have to shoot into my penis as part of our foreplay. It does work really well though but it does take longer to cum which can sometimes be okay.
That being said, we like to have special guests in the bedroom from time to time and although my husband is comfortable with me taking the shot, I’m uncomfortable about it with others so try to hide it due to the embarrassment. It makes for a very anxious evening for me unless I can quietly slip away for a shot.
Pills work to help get me erect if I’m not expecting to top…
I’ve been with a guy but he never penetrated me. He just ate my ass and I grinded my (pussy) ass against his cock and made him cum. I’ve only had toys in my ass and I love how it feels(mostly) but I never get hard. Is that common? I consider myself straight too only been with one guy and that was a few years ago. I do get pegged occasionally by my gf. But still never get hard from it.
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Reading all these are making me really want to bottom lol
I have just joined the site and am desperate to get my confidence back. I am in in my early sixties and only had straight sex till about age 49. Then I found “Ladyboys” after my divorce. I dabbled a bit at first, but after a few failures with women, I started to increase the proportion of times I had sex with ladyboys, to the point where I am now when I am 100 percent interested only in ladyboys. I achieve erections sometimes, oddly when I am a little drunk and usually only whe receiving oral sex. I will never be a “bottom”, but it’s a long time since I have topped, I always lose the mood when putting on a condom. Now every encounter I have fills me with anxiety I usually end up just performing oral on them , but I know some are disappointed at not being topped. Feeling utterly lost,confused and down on myself. I am also going check all my T level etc with my doctor. But every time my blood results seem better than normal for my age. I don’t sleep well anymore, I wake after about 3 or 4 hours and can’t get back to sleep. I hope this program and the help I seek outside helps me understand why I am tense and anxious all the time about sex. This is destroying my self worth.
Forgot to add, I am fairly fit for my age, but I believe I have become addicted to ladyboy/femboy related porn. I am trying hard to quit. But it’s what led me to ladyboys in the first place. No problems with arousal then, but putting on a condom has nearly always killed the moment for me.
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Hey
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Sounds like you’re doing it !
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Nice
I would say this is common, and the case for me often. I really love getting my ass eaten, and bottoming - it feels great but doesn’t always make me hard. But I’ve found a couple things that make me hard instantly - sucking dick, and riding dick. But I didn’t figure that out until I was comfortable and at ease, and could then be curious, have fun, and explore what really hit the spot.
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I’m glad it’s not just me in this scenario. Btw riding dick sounds like fun right now lol
Straight guy with questions:
Don’t mean to overstep, but I’m considering asking gf to explore butt play on me….
A finger, a toy, a strap? Not sure yet. But I do have questions and I thought this may be a safe space to ask without ridicule or tracking keystrokes on a search engine….
- What do you do for prep before butt play? A mess will kill the mood for gf. I’m thinking a small bulb and flush till clean. More??
- I struggle with hardness and also can’t cum from any touch other than my hand. Prostate Os don’t need an erection, right??
- I realize the anus is designed to accommodate and return to water tight- any danger of future leakage from occasional play?
I don’t mean to be patronizing or offend in any way. I’m looking for info and I’m hoping I can get first hand info from men with experience.
Thanks fellas.
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Hello my friend I just wanted to let you know I’m feeling what you have shared and I am very interested in your out comes with you and your hand to be honest I can’t get anything to happen with out having myself in my hand and then I don’t have any problems with it yet they can do the same situation as I’ve done and it is not working for me when my partner is in control anyway I hope to see how things are doing for you and get some hope and help with your over coming
Fuuuuck I want to ride a dick
So, riding cock is an intense pleasure for which I have found no substitute. Waves of intensity and pleasure you don’t want to stop. Interestingly, and if you have watched much gay porn, it is not uncommon to go soft when getting drilled. However, I have never been fucked and not either cum or had a bit of fun! For myself, if I got soft, it was relatively momentary. Focusing on the feeling of “riding,” taking in the raw, primal sight of the guy doing his thing, appreciating some aspect or another of his body–that was enough to finish me off. Hard or soft–wow, what a ride. And what robust-ivory-spoonbill said about getting your ass rimmed? No lie. Hands down an awesome thing to explore.
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I would love to experience getting my ass pounded while bent over. I thoroughly enjoy backing up on a mid size to large toy and feeling my ass getting stretched. To be honest I don’t even care if I’m hard or not while I’m doing it cuz it still feels good. But it’d be nice to experience being on top and riding a large dick too. I have had my ass eaten and yes, I love it!
Used to be about 99% top, then bad relationship, shit got into my head and fucked me up. Now, more of a bottom. Tried to top. Past fears and doubts play too much with my head. Want to get back enjoying sex again.
I am currently trying to figure out if I am bi or not and it’s difficult to do since I’ve been in a straight relationship for 6 years (I’m in my early 20s). I have tried to stimulate my own prostate before with my finger but it doesn’t feel nearly as good as it seems like it should. Does anyone have advice?