I’m having a realisation that I masturbate more than I have sex with my partner. I don’t watch porn and I only have thoughts about my partner. What could that mean?
Hello this could mean a lot of things but it’s not necessarily bad. As we know we can take ourselves in hand for stress relief, a bit of fun without the ‘effort’ of sex etc… if it’s not harming your sex life then I’d not worry about it
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My partner doesn’t want to have sex everytime that I do. We have sex about twice a week sometimes more sometimes a lot less. Sometimes once a month. Kids and life stuff. Before this ED issue I would want it twice or so a day. Same here no porn, but through this app have found audio erotica which helps me visualize my wife with sounds which I dig. But I have definitely masturbated more in the last week (first week of being on here) than I have in years. Feeling like it’s building up my libido again. After the Ed issues 2 months ago the past 2 months my libido had dropped immensely because the thought of sex turned into anxiety inducing. So at the moment I believe it’s helping me rebuild myself. But also there is no way my wife realistically can keep up with my hunger for her and I’m guessing you might be in the same boat. So I have to turn to myself at least every few days so I’m not just chasing her around the house and annoying her lol. Good luck man hope this helps.
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