I dont actively feel sexually driven and want to have sex. When I was younger I like I was very much so. Now it’s less and less (I’m 24 now) I’ve had a few issues getting hard recently and definitely felt like traumatic events especially since they were with multiple different women. I just had a girl on a second date and we were in my bed. I didn’t feel like having sex with her but I felt like the expectation was there. Also there was a definite fear of not getting hard there. Perhaps I need to meet someone and emotionally connect… but the fear of sex will still be there. I have this fear of the girl realizing I cannot perform sexually and then losing her.
Try being open and honest with her. Tell her about your Ed. Let her know it’s not her!
I did that with my current gf and it’s been amazing. We both go down, she loves my fingers and I’ve bought couple buzz toys that we both enjoy. I have a death grip issue as well as a porn issue, I’ve all but quit both and have seen some success along with this app…