Been seeing someone new recently and it’s going amazing, she’s great and is extremely reassuring about everything. Had a few performance issues but getting erect isn’t one of them anymore.
I’m struggling with that drive to have sex and get on with stuff, I love to tease and so does she, but when it comes to just getting on and doing it I can’t seem to pull the trigger and start.
Anxiety is obviously an issue but I’m not sure why? My aim is always to please so I feel like that could be an issue, maybe I’m thinking too much into it?
I’m trying to think of it as just sex because that’s what it is, but the confidence of just ‘grabbing her and getting on with it’ (her words) is something I’m struggling with.
Any ideas?