I sometimes lose the erection for lack of feeling it pleasurable anymore. I go in hard, and it gets harder inside as my arousal increases to the point of me wanting to come. I try to control this so as not to come to quick and change positions or my rhythm, but then in those situations is when it happens, and I find it hard to get back to a pleasurable sensation anymore, so my penis gets softer or I lose the erection.
How do you guys go over these situations ?
What helps me, is to let it go and just enjoy the sensations and feelings. Don’t think if I’m going too hard or too slow, or too deep or too shallow. Just embrace the feeling of pleasure, caress your partner’s body, stimulate her other parts to express strong affection. Feel how much you like fucking your partner. Now make sure you can extend this feeling as long as you both want. Don’t rush. If your partner starts building up the orgasm, this is the only moment you want to make sure she gets it strong and with all your affection. Don’t interrupt it because you are too close to PONR
This is spot on what happens to me too
Same issue I am having
Yep, you saved me having to type that, same here brother…