I don’t have trouble getting hard, it’s staying hard.
-I’m not anxious about sex
-It’s not self criticism
-I don’t finish prematurely
-I’m not overthinking
-I don’t have issues with confidence or being self conscious
It just doesn’t stay up more than a few minutes. Idk. My wife and I have had some serious problems. Not infidelity type problems but sure as hell went through a couple of years where I couldn’t remember the last time I liked her or ever wanted to be around her. During that time I was the one who would refuse sex. We’re mending now and sometimes I even do feel the desire to be intimate but I just don’t think my body wants to cooperate. I guess I feel discouraged when the daily lesson is on “confidence” or something and I don’t feel like that’s gonna help me. I just want a beneficial direction to be headed in. Anyone know what will help?
I have the same issue man. Not sure what to do. My GP just says I can write pills. I don’t want to be relying on pills.
How long have you been on mojo?
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Only a few days but it’s hard to do the activities when I don’t feel like it’s addressing my issue. How about you?
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Same bro. I’ve been on it for a week or so. I have to be honest, I haven’t used it religiously. Some lessons here and there.
Yesterday night was embarrassing. I finished her twice with my hands. Then when I went on be in her I kept loosing my erection. I don’t know what to do bro.
Honestly same as your list. I never had issues.
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I feel like you may not have the confidence problems. (And I still do all the premature ejaculation ones even if I’ve never had that problem)
For me it was that I would tire my partner out. That’s how it started. Like I wasn’t quite getting enough stimulation (porn/grip issues) and she doesn’t come from vaginal. So my brain was doing a wonderful little jig where I would just ‘quit’ if it wasn’t going to happen in good time. And then my body decided I wouldn’t stay hard for penetration anymore.
It sounds like you’ve got some head issues for sure. They might not line up exactly but you can still benefit from the mindfulness, meditation, stress relief.
And if you honestly don’t think you need those things you should talk to a therapist not your GP. It’s okay if you aren’t ready for that yet. But that will be your next step if you want to fix this aspect of your life. Not a sex therapist. Just a therapist.
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Thankyou. I’ll keep going and trust the proccess