Hi Everyone,
I’m really struggling to stay hard at the moment, and it’s absolutely destroyed my confidence. I feel absolutely devastated and like “well, maybe this is who I am now” which I REALLY don’t want!
I used to be so confident and every girl I slept with was always left extremely satisfied. This obviously boosted my confidence in my own abilities, with girls often being like “I’ve never had sex like THAT” or “I didn’t know I could do that”.
Nowadays it feels like I can’t satisfy anyone and I can’t stay hard other than when I masturbate - which is an absolute nightmare!!
A few bad encounters I’ve had recently;
I went to see a friend who I’ve wanted to be with for years, and I finally had the chance to sleep with them, with the potential of this becoming something more. I absolutely blew it, giving a very mediocre performance and I could tell that (even though she came multiple times) she was disappointed. She was so nice about it but it’s absolutely ruined the chances of anything. It felt like the attraction was there and I was really horny but at the same time I just wasn’t present and it didn’t feel right!
The same kind of experience happened the second time, when I was at a strip club on the weekend and the stripper decided that they would let me be very ‘touchy’ shall we say. I was loving it and absolutely in the zone, I felt like I should have been hard as fuck but looked and felt my cock and it was barely erect. It seemed to get somewhat erect and then go down - rinse and repeat 
I am, however, also Epileptic but my Neurologist and GP assure me that it’s not my medication, so I’m thinking maybe something more psychological, hence trying Mojo.
Do any of you have any similar experiences and have you found that anything has helped??