Really struggling staying hard

Hi Everyone,

Iā€™m really struggling to stay hard at the moment, and itā€™s absolutely destroyed my confidence. I feel absolutely devastated and like ā€œwell, maybe this is who I am nowā€ which I REALLY donā€™t want!

I used to be so confident and every girl I slept with was always left extremely satisfied. This obviously boosted my confidence in my own abilities, with girls often being like ā€œIā€™ve never had sex like THATā€ or ā€œI didnā€™t know I could do thatā€.

Nowadays it feels like I canā€™t satisfy anyone and I canā€™t stay hard other than when I masturbate - which is an absolute nightmare!!

A few bad encounters Iā€™ve had recently;

I went to see a friend who Iā€™ve wanted to be with for years, and I finally had the chance to sleep with them, with the potential of this becoming something more. I absolutely blew it, giving a very mediocre performance and I could tell that (even though she came multiple times) she was disappointed. She was so nice about it but itā€™s absolutely ruined the chances of anything. It felt like the attraction was there and I was really horny but at the same time I just wasnā€™t present and it didnā€™t feel right!

The same kind of experience happened the second time, when I was at a strip club on the weekend and the stripper decided that they would let me be very ā€˜touchyā€™ shall we say. I was loving it and absolutely in the zone, I felt like I should have been hard as fuck but looked and felt my cock and it was barely erect. It seemed to get somewhat erect and then go down - rinse and repeat :smiling_face_with_tear:

I am, however, also Epileptic but my Neurologist and GP assure me that itā€™s not my medication, so Iā€™m thinking maybe something more psychological, hence trying Mojo.

Do any of you have any similar experiences and have you found that anything has helped??