Losing erection when out of breath

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I’m sure there’s a few things that go into it (stress/anxiety, poor sleep, occasionally alcohol), but when I lose my erection it happens at the same time every time.

I can always get hard, and we’ll usually start off in missionary, but after a few minutes when I start to get out of breath and need to change position , this is when I’ll go soft.

It now feels like I need to cum in the first position of sex or I’ll lose it.

Has anyone else experienced the same/have any advice?

I’m fairly fit, but plan to up the Cardio to at least make that point further away so I’m more likely to finish before my lungs do

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Same

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I have the same issue sometimes. Mine feels linked to heart rate. The higher my heart rate the harder it is to keep it. I suspect it may be because I breathe too shallow and hyperventilate which triggers my fight or flight response. Increased heart rate and hyperventilating are 2 sure signs that my anxiety is acting up so it makes sense for my brain to register them as stressful.