Hey, so I now know that for some reason I’m hyperventilating during sex - and that’s causing my ED. My partner and I have such passionate sex, I get ED and go soft, but on the odd occasion that I get ED due to hyperventilation I can still cum when soft (that doesn’t always happen) but would prefer to be hard for her. I often feel tingling in my feet and hands when it starts to happen.
I have absolutely no idea what Mojo exercises to focus on to overcome this, how can there still be passionate sex without hyperventilation (I’ve never felt this much passion before or this much attraction)? Maybe we still need to become more comfortable with each other in sex - it’s a new relationship of 2 months.
Any advice on which exercises please, and does this happen to anyone else?
Why do you think you’re hyperventilating? Does it happen at other times or just during sex? Has it always happened during sex or just with your current partner?
Sounds like a bit of anxiety or stress and over excitement so you might find the box breathing helpful to just slow things down for you. Try slowing the whole sexual experience down and let it build before you become so carried away.
Talk to your partner openly and honestly and let her know what’s been happening with you and hopefully she’ll be supportive in what your trying to achieve and work with you.
Vulnerability is attractive and builds connection which is important for a good relationship.
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Hmm well I think it’s because my hands and feet start to tingle and lose feeling. When I’m masturbating (which I don’t do much anymore, only when thinking about my partner), I don’t have the tingling and my erection is fine.
I do think I put a fair bit of pressure on myself with my partner because she means so incredibly much to me, I want sex to go well - don’t want to lose my erection etc
For me I hyperventilate even masterbating! My 3 year relationship has just ended- and the whole not being to get it up- I believe contributed to the end! This was all brought on by my divorce! I got involved with another woman too soon- and it just fucked my head up! Now she’s gone and I can’t even jerk off with no pressures from my girl! I am pissed off with my cock right now! I just want my life back!!! I’m hoping this time out will calm me down and I’ll slowly come back to how I used to be? But I’m also worried it’ll all come back should I meet somebody else!!! I’m been on mojo now for 11 months- and still having problems!! Feel like shit!