I have been with my fiancé for over 4 years. We are likely going to cancel our wedding as I work through my ED issues. It has been an issue for our entire relationship and I’ve tried a few things with little to no success. She has bottled up her feelings as I have and recently she says she’s not in love with me anymore. I dropped the ball and should have gotten this all checked out and fixed but I was too scared. Now I am meeting with a urologist and am suffering from extreme anxiety so I am meeting with a therapist (both in the coming weeks). I would try to have sex but my anxiety gives me no chance of getting an erection. And advice or people who have experienced similar circumstances is greatly appreciated.
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I’m so sorry to hear that, my brother. You taking care of yourself is the best thing you can do right now. It sounds like you’re making the right first steps. Between the therapist and the urologist you should have a better idea of what’s causing your issues. For now, meditation is a good place to start. Truth be told, any of the activities on here are probably a good starting place. I can tell you that things will get better. You’ll get better. Hang in there!
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Much appreciated! It’s hard to stay positive right now but I know I have to try to get over this mental block. A little better each day