Hey guys. In my early 50s. I don’t have libido unless I have a string emotional connection to the partner. Recently got a new partner, met twice. Performance 50/50. Can’t stop imagining failure. I know if we meet 4 or 5 times I may not have any problems, but I’m scared the instability in performance until then will turn her off and then I’ll need to start from zero with another person. The stress is killing me.
String → strong. Sorry for typo!