So, I suffer from performance anxiety which can start hours or days before the encounter, this clearly gets an idea in my brain that I’ll suffer ED and I will prefer to not have sex or don’t be forward. I have realized that I’m able to perform without any problems when I’m in control of the moves and when I’m comfortable around the girl.
Right now I’m in between dating two girls which I have seen naked before and they have seen my ED first hand, what I’m realizing is that I’ve never talked to them about breaking ice and having true confidence as well as tell them a little about my problem so that they don’t feel it’s their fault if it happens to me, what do you think?
Best to talk about it to your partner,
It really helps
Performance anxiety is a tricky little bastard. It’s that self repeating voice that says, “Oh, what if this happens again?” It’s a psychological barrier we encounter.