I'll get there eventually

🍆 Erection issues
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So I’ve been seeing someone a few months and on two occasions so far sex was on the cards but little Johnny wasn’t coming to play.

Spectatoring is my issue. Full focus on not getting hard to the point of barely feeling any actual physical pleasure. Shes amazingly beautiful and the anxiety and pressure just make my focus wrong.

Im working on the mindfulness through the app as I know everything works fine. Going to cut back on the porn and solo play, though last time with her i hadn’t watched porn or done any solo play for weeks and still nothing…

Going to keep at it. This has to be beaten. Enough is enough after all these years with so many women.

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Same for me!!
Quit porn and solo (90%…)
I’m still in my head with her… Hard during foreplay but when she goes down or I put it in, …… :flushed:
I haven’t been with her in weeks- she’s helping mom recover from a hip replacement 2hrs away…
I’m hoping that the work I’m doing during that time will help…
We were together 2 weeks ago for a night and the next morning I was hard enough to have sex. (Maybe 70% hard) for 10-15 min… I did notice myself focusing on her sexy legs in the air and that definitely helped me stay hard or come back from soft spots.