A few weeks ago, my husband and I tried to have sex but I just couldn’t stay hard. He wanted me to take it slow (we don’t do anal very often, after all), but without constant stimulation I just couldn’t keep my erection. I felt really ashamed, because I kept thinking about how often I masturbate and use porn, and for how long, and now it was affecting my real sex life. We went for food, and on the way back, thanks to a broken elevator, we had to take the stairs. Long story short, we ended up getting frisky in the stairwell of our building, and went all the way right there. It was a really hot experience at the time, but looking back on it, the fact that I could only really get excited in the kind of situation that I might see in a porn I’d watch worries me more and more. I want to be able to stay hard and into it in a normal situation, just in bed with my husband.
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Cut the porn and masturbation. Might take months for it to fix itself but will fix itself in due time.