didn’t ever get hard in the 3 minutes, also wasn’t trying to, which I think was the point. Not sure if this will help me be comfortable with a soft penis, but I’ll continue to try this exercise a few more times
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You’re on the right track. The goal was to reconnect/connect with yourself.
Not goal oriented for getting hard or masturbation (not that type of excercise… but there are those too)
This exercise was mainly just for exploring, especially for those that haven’t really taken the time to notice their own soft penises … maybe they only associate whipping out, only for masturbation/sex when erect only…or maybe nudity is frowned upon in the household, so you’re covered up all day and only take it out for showers or masturbation or sex.
There are so many reasons. But the goal for this was to ultimately, “befriend” your soft penis and not be afraid of it (if it went soft during sex) or maybe in general
This began with my inner critic perhaps making reference to this being how I started masturbating initially - by a mirror - and that now, 20 years later, it wouldn’t be the same.
After the initial minute, it began to get hard. I realised, then and there, that I still had some control. I let it rest, then repeated it with the same result.
I’m keen to explore this further (not in isolation) as I feel that it was morale-boosting.
Tbh I was fascinated by the realisation that I could twist and bend it in so many ways whilst soft. Made me wonder if I could successfully tie it in a knot
It felt “cold”!and I was still judging this even though I’m not aroused. There’s just this image of floppiness. I noticed a round area of skin at the bottom of the head that looks cool though. I had this desire to shave all my public hair off. I feel like that hides my dick somewhat and gets in the way of penetration.
I kept thinking mine looked so small compared to my erect penis. I’m definitely a grower. I felt vulnerable.
That’s was me to a tee
Dont! It wont get up, nothing will help. You are out of breath
This is nice, but being hard would be nicer. A real sexual person would get hard straight away
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It’s not the same, it impacts me because I don’t want to do it
Surprisingly got to medium hardness. I noticed touching it took me back to my last sex and I remembered that SHE was uncomfortable with my soft state. I need to tell her to continue pleasuring even if I’m not hard
Got hard
It was like “god you need to shave, no way she will find that attractive”
It got hard really quick not sure why
its something im used to doing
I got hard but stopped and let it go back down and a started again
Shockingly didn’t hear the inner critic. It was nice just to explore my penis with no end goal in mind. I think he’s handsome!