Identifying the inner critic during soft penis pleasuring (Part 2)

I almost instantly got upset that I wasn’t hard. I got pretty anxious during the exercise. I was surprised because I had thought that it was going to be a really easy exercise.

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With a semi, I was thinking, how small it looked relatively, then at the end, when she said to study it, and to take a breath and let go, I went soft again, which made me think “ah fuck, where is this anxiety coming from”

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The inner critic didn’t pop up… seems only to pop up when I actually about to do have sex and it instantly comments on how long it’s taking to get hard with my partner but not with other (open relationship)

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I got hard really fast. I felt pretty calm during the exercise. However I did feel a bit anxious that I wouldn’t be able to get this quickly during actual sex with my partner

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I didn’t notice the inner critic. Keeping the noise down allowed me to stay hard or simi!

I got hard super fast which is nice but it felt like I didn’t get the actual lesson from it

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I was at ease and at peace with my penis. Usually seeing my penis like this is a disappointment. It was the first time where seeing my penis like this was calm and serene. I enjoyed the exercise, especially the words of affirmation at the end. Him and I bound for some big adventures together! We’re excited!

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LFG big moments are coming / Cumming

Me and the little guy are friends again

Think a few more times will help to get more of a reaction I felt I was just staring but not really blaming my penis for anything

i struggled with the exercise as i got a semi immediately after starting

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There was a hint of rejection from the inner critics in the beginning where it conveyed that a penis should be soft like this but always when it’s out in the light.

I did feel the inner critic kick off at the beginning but I made a conscious effort to quiet down that voice and just make neutral observations. I had to take a break half way through because I was getting hard so I distracted myself then went back. By the end I got a rush of compassion for my penis and realized I have been treating it like someone would abuse a pet they hated. Quite a journey in 3 minutes tbh :rofl:

The inner critic kept reminding me that my penis has let us down in the past.
But that’s ok because my Penny’s is just awesome.

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Typical ‘too small’ comments to myself. But honestly once I relaxed, I could kind of see it clearly without my negative mental filters. Definitely not too small, just fine haha. And I ended up getting hard…I’m assuming this is because I was trying not to? Stupid brain lol.

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My inner critic did kick in at the start. i was thinking it’s small and that it won’t get hard. But after being relaxed and playing with it for a short while on soft it got hard. I need to get used to seeing my penis when i’m not high.

Thinking about how my penis head isn’t super shiny.

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My critic doesn’t say anything. It rather feels like dissappointment. It was triggerred and I tried to let go of the feelings. To let them be. I think that is a good approach

Some disappointment that it wasn’t hard

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My inner critic is a bitch, It tried to come through but I focused on my penis being a natural part of my body. I observed it, all the details. It felt good. I got a half chub but that’s where it stopped.

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