I almost instantly got upset that I wasn’t hard. I got pretty anxious during the exercise. I was surprised because I had thought that it was going to be a really easy exercise.
With a semi, I was thinking, how small it looked relatively, then at the end, when she said to study it, and to take a breath and let go, I went soft again, which made me think “ah fuck, where is this anxiety coming from”
The inner critic didn’t pop up… seems only to pop up when I actually about to do have sex and it instantly comments on how long it’s taking to get hard with my partner but not with other (open relationship)
I got hard really fast. I felt pretty calm during the exercise. However I did feel a bit anxious that I wouldn’t be able to get this quickly during actual sex with my partner
I didn’t notice the inner critic. Keeping the noise down allowed me to stay hard or simi!
I got hard super fast which is nice but it felt like I didn’t get the actual lesson from it
I was at ease and at peace with my penis. Usually seeing my penis like this is a disappointment. It was the first time where seeing my penis like this was calm and serene. I enjoyed the exercise, especially the words of affirmation at the end. Him and I bound for some big adventures together! We’re excited!
LFG big moments are coming / Cumming
Me and the little guy are friends again
Think a few more times will help to get more of a reaction I felt I was just staring but not really blaming my penis for anything
i struggled with the exercise as i got a semi immediately after starting
There was a hint of rejection from the inner critics in the beginning where it conveyed that a penis should be soft like this but always when it’s out in the light.
I did feel the inner critic kick off at the beginning but I made a conscious effort to quiet down that voice and just make neutral observations. I had to take a break half way through because I was getting hard so I distracted myself then went back. By the end I got a rush of compassion for my penis and realized I have been treating it like someone would abuse a pet they hated. Quite a journey in 3 minutes tbh
The inner critic kept reminding me that my penis has let us down in the past.
But that’s ok because my Penny’s is just awesome.
Typical ‘too small’ comments to myself. But honestly once I relaxed, I could kind of see it clearly without my negative mental filters. Definitely not too small, just fine haha. And I ended up getting hard…I’m assuming this is because I was trying not to? Stupid brain lol.
My inner critic did kick in at the start. i was thinking it’s small and that it won’t get hard. But after being relaxed and playing with it for a short while on soft it got hard. I need to get used to seeing my penis when i’m not high.
Thinking about how my penis head isn’t super shiny.
My critic doesn’t say anything. It rather feels like dissappointment. It was triggerred and I tried to let go of the feelings. To let them be. I think that is a good approach
Some disappointment that it wasn’t hard
My inner critic is a bitch, It tried to come through but I focused on my penis being a natural part of my body. I observed it, all the details. It felt good. I got a half chub but that’s where it stopped.