When I first met the loml, I was a different animal, I even suprised myself on how long I’d last, however 1 bad premature experience and its haunted me ever since. I’ve noticed even now we are reluctant to have sex as we know it’s gonna be over before it started. It’s taken a toll on me and I firmly believe that we have less sex now due to my inability to satisfy. In her words it feels like a chore. This is day 1 of sex therapy so hopefully I can get back to where I was. Anyone else relate?
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Yea I definitely relate man. Never had these problems in the past, and one day they appear out of the blue. Are you and your girl good at communicating? What does she mean by it being a chore? Does she understand that this isn’t her fault? I fairly confident half of PE is just a mental thing. Maybe if you try having a transparent conversation with her things could get better? I wish I had more advice for u tho but I’m in the same boat as you. PE makes me feel like less of a man — it sucks
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I totally get what you’re saying. I think back to where I was 2 years ago and it was a completely different thing. It’s been a slow residual withering of my confidence.
Luckily, after almost a month on the app I’m feeling better. My gf and my sex has been much better, and while I still feel like there’s a way to go, I can sense an upward trajectory. Keep at it!
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100% relate, everything was peachy until a couple months ago, someone told me, and these meditations remind you, don’t put so much pressure on yourself, swx is so much more than what some of us think it is.
I’ve been on the app for a week and while I still have a way to go, my mentality is already improving, and I’ve seen some very minor improvements already. It helps to have a brilliantly supportive partner. You don’t have to go it alone
That’s it bro makes me feel less of a man. And idk we both kinda have our own issues she said to me that she’s lost all desire and ofc things like that stick with you buttbh I’ve never really had an issue until recently maybe I’m just too in my head fingers crossed we get it sorted