Thank you so much. We had a great talk about our relationship and basically where we are, dont want to divulge too much in that regard out of respect for her. She did ask if i still want her which i said of course and she is aware of this therapy. Its tough knowing that besides sticking to this therapy and making change, that i just have to be patient until she is ready to come back together as a whole.
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Here’s my story. I started dating my now wife when I was 16 and she was 14. We tried to have sex but for two years I could not keep an erection long enough to have sex. It was the most painful time in my life and I know what you’re going through. This was in the 90’s so I had no access to the internet and had no clue what was wrong with me. I totally know how you feel. It was a horrible secret that I couldn’t tell anyone about. I eventually went to a ED therapist and he helped me by having me recognize and deal with the fight or flight feelings that were killing my erection. When I was 18 we finally were able to have sex but I was so traumatized that I still have issues to this day. This app is great and has a lot of good info to help you get through. You will overcome this and be happy. I feel for you because I know the pain you feel at that age. It will get better.
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I’m 39 and met my wife 20 years ago and have had constant phases of good sex and bad ED it’s a bit random when. Usually if I hadn’t had sex with my wife a while ED would come back as there’s more doubt and pressure and build up. During sex I would start to try and finish quickly just in case as I was so worried I would lose it very soon and the second I started to feel like I might lose it I would get angry with myself and it would become self fulfilling. I had go to fantasies that sometimes worked at bringing it back but either way I was never in the moment with my wife. Quitting visual porn and switching to erotic stories helped a lot with my ED as did less masturbation as I did that quite a lot (twice a day).
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