I have to admit I’ve considered if you can feel the balls slapping on you and I bet that does feel nice.
Hey man, if you haven’t solved that by now, maybe you should give yourself an opportunity to try it once, without judging yourself? If you are attracted to the penis but not to the male figure, have you thought of trans lady who still has the penis? A lot of men try that..
Oh I’d definitely try a real penis even if it was on a guy and not trans just because it’s something I’ve considered for a while now. Trans would be fine too. I also like the idea of making a straight guy fuck my ass. As long as the penis looks and feels good I don’t think I’d mind.
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I posted this 8 months ago and I still have the problem
I take viagra to have sex with my gf
Without she know
And I casually show off my dick and ass on video call with me where I get hard in seconds
Do you think you’d like to try having sex with a man?
I’ll admit I don’t really get turned on thinking about penetrating a man but I’m turned on at the idea of a man penetrating me. And I also can get turned on showing off my ass. We’re all different on what we like.
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Don’t watch porn. Abstain from it in all forms. No nudes, no erotic literature. Literally nothing. I’d suggest you stop masturbating also. Furthermore no fantasizing about scenarios like you’ve seen in porn, or fantasies in any kind connected to porn. It will help to rewire your brain to its defaults. And that’s gonna take some time.
From my point of view, I ain’t a scientist or doc, but what happened your brain craved novelty, something hot, something taboo, why? Because you overstimulated it with usual vanilla porn with women, so it found a way in gay porn. So, your gay porn addiction and fantasies associated with it are no more than just your brain trying to stimulate already overstimulated areas.
I had the same but with other hardcore fetish. Ignoring, abstaining from porn for some time gave me back my not full, I’m gonna admit that, but erections.
P.s. this time can be anywhere from month or two to a year. Depending how long you have consumed it.
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I would like to try
But I won’t do it as I am sure all what happened for me was because the gay porn I am consuming
I love woman and and women’s body also I feel like I can have sex with a man but ai can never fall in love with a man
I fully understand that. I don’t have romantic feelings towards men either but a good looking cock and the idea of it in my ass can make me hot as fuck.
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Go for it then, man! Don’t hold yourself back if you wanna feel how it is.
I bet you’d enjoy my ass lol. It’s too bad we can’t fully indulge.
I would but I am in a relationship with a woman
I’ve had similar curiosities as a gay man but towards women. I’ve always been gay and really enjoy being fucked in the ass and having my prostate stimulated but recently I’ve had a really strong urge to cum in a woman’s pussy. I’m not romantically attracted to women but I have this crazy urge to plant my seed deep inside a woman. It feels like some primal biological urge to fulfill some male rite of passage idk. I’m so terrified to actually approach any women about it though because I have literally no experience and I don’t know how to talk to women like that. Any straight guys have any advice? Let me borrow some swagger hahaha
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are you sure you’ve never been attracted to men or is it something that feels so shameful you don’t even want to acknowledge it? that’s okay and it doesn’t mean you’re gay.
sexuality is scary—especially when realizing new things. it could be that you simply like ass play and enjoy being watched, not even specifically by men.
don’t overthink the labels. easier said than done, i know.
humans are into all kinds of different things. i’m gay, and recently i’ve been curious about having sex with a woman. even if i did it, liked it, and was successful at it, i’d still consider myself a 100% gay man—nowhere near bisexual.
from reading your comments, it could be that you’re simply bored and you want to mix it up. when you add something that you consider taboo, of course you might get aroused.
all i can say is don’t let this ruin your relationship. it doesn’t mean you’re not in love with your girlfriend. it doesn’t mean you’re not attracted to her. it might just mean that you want to explore another side of your sexuality—that’s healthy.
from your most recent comments, it sounds like you might want to consider experimenting with a man. just think carefully about it before you proceed with anything.
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If I were to be brutally honest. If I wasn’t in a committed relationship with my gf I would completely have let a man(doesn’t matter if he’s straight or gay or trans) fuck me by now. I don’t think, since I’ve tried with a guy before it just didn’t work out, that I’d be worried or consider the labels. I do think the labels stopped me in the past but now I’m over that stuff. I’m too old to care lol. I just would like to experience it. And if you want to explore women I hope you get to explore as well.
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Have you had any luck? I’m sure a lot of the desire to cum in a woman is possibly a primal urge. Did anything happen in particular that made you curious?
Ok, I am a gay man here and can tell you that I have heard your story several times before from straight men that have told me that after watching lots of porn, with time they scalating looking for novelty and found that in gay porn without being gay.
Usually people rush to declare them gay or bi. However, I believe them. I have been sexually with that type of guy, when they asked me to have sex. They said they knew me and I was a guy they could trust to do that. Sexually, they are aroused, and the fuck is hot, but as someone who has been with men attracted to man, you notice they are not atracted to men, not even want to kiss (they do because I love kissing and I request it as the agreement we discuss before accepting to have sex). I think they get aroused by the act of fucking with a guy but not because they are attracted to men.
So I want to say I believe you. Stop porn, really stop. Porn have damaged our sexual minds. I am sure after a while your brain will heal. Best of success.
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In your personal experiences, would you say it’s more that the straight guys want to penetrate or be penetrated or both?
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In my experience, they do both. However, they are more interested in trying of being penetrated analy. They know the experience of penetrating women. What they don’t have and cannot enjoy is the experience of being penetrated. They don’t ask that to their female partner because men are afraid of women thinking less of their manhood. So they go to man with that idea, curiosity that give them strong arousal. They are not atracted to men, just to the act of fucking.
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I can fully understand that. I’ve even had my gf use a strap on, on me and I fully enjoy it but I know it’s not her favorite thing to do. In fact I’ve noticed at times it has made her question my manhood. Despite me explaining to her that it’s something I enjoy and don’t feel it’s anything I should have to defend. At the same time, especially since it’s not something she loves doing, I’d love to try being penetrated anally by a man. I’d like to feel the physical difference and I think it’d be more intense if he actually enjoyed it.
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