I’m having Ed problems and don’t know why

🍆 Erection issues
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I’m 18 and have been with my gf for up to 3 months now and still haven’t had sex, even in foreplay I’ll get erect for a couple seconds and then completely go soft, this happens almost every time we try to engage in stuff which causes me to feel so much fear every time we try again, I feel so frustrated and confused as this girl is every thing I’ve ever wanted and this keeps on happening, so much that I’ve turned to this for help. Has anyone got any suggestions or tips or same experiences?

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I have had the same , it hard , then loose it str8 away , it like a confidence thing,
My tip would be to do box breathing , and try take away any anxiety you might have,
I think it because you like her so much you more scared about not being able to pleasure her , and that’s what’s prob making you have this issue, you can get hard but it your brain telling you something els ,

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Try making her more of the focus during your foreplay and skip yourself. Tell her it’s all about her the next time. Ask her to be responsive and let you know what she likes and where she likes your hands, fingers, and tongue as you play around. This might help remove some stress on you while still engaging with her. And let’s be honest womens bods are hott, might help you maintain and if not, then keep doing what she likes. If nothing else pleasing her will make her feel good, build more connection and give you confidence that you can still bring her pleasure. - 2nd’ly try to make penetration less of a priority, keep it toward the end of your play time. There is a huge world of things to do in the bedroom, penetration is only 1. It’s unorthodox, but more common that you’d think. Plus must woman don’t ‘O’ from penetration or from penetration alone, other stimulus is needed.

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I had the same with my first few times, hell i even punched a hole through my door in sheer frustration. Try longer foreplay and what i do it sounds kind of selfish but i make my fiance orgasm first with oral to alleviate the “guilt” by lack of a better way of putting it.

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