So the stage Iâm right now. Is that when we are having sex. She have to stimulate me to get it on. Sometimes I get it just by kissing. Something really cool happened. Laughter. We laughed really hard suddenly due to something irrelevant and I got an instant boner. Makes me think: âhuh im actually pretty horny is just that Iâm so anxious I donât feel itâ.
That was cool⌠but whatâs really incredible is what happened after trying few poses and successfully maintaining the boner (I did deep breathing and tried to connect with my bod while thrusting).
On the last post, the one after she came 
, so I could cum, my dick went half flacid with the condom on. And usually I take the condom off and start being stimulated by the girl. But this time a said: âStimulate my penis gently with the condom onâ And so I started connecting with the body, breathing deeply and scanning the room. And bam. It got hard as a brick. Which reinforces the idea everything is fine itâs just my anxiety whoâs being a troll 
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Guys this thing is adventure. But I can confirm it works. It helps a lot that the girl Iâm dating with weâve been really open about this. Sheâs amazing as well as my little guyđ.