Please help I can’t cum during sex lol I am really attracted to my partner but i just hit a mental wall
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I hear you and I’ve been there. I know it sounds impossible, but the key is getting out of your head and enjoying the sensation with your partner. The pressure you’re putting on yourself to cum will only make it harder to actually orgasm.
Spend some time getting into a good head space and enjoy the ride. And I know that shit sounds impossible, but believe me, of you can manage to take your mind off the goal and just enjoy what you’re feeling, shit gets better pretty quick
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I’m working on it as well….
I’m focusing on the fact that there’s a pretty woman that wants nothing more than to help me finish. It’s literally been years since I’ve finished anywhere other than my hand..
Also working on my PED at the same time. I was able to go for 20 or so minutes last weekend and couldn’t finish. Got close a couple times…. I’ve actually started visualizing hot scenes I’ve been in with her, or her amazing body or anything hot.
I’ve not cum from sex in years. What caught my eye on mojo was the death grip masterbating. A firm hand is not the same as a vagina. So your hand is overstimulated and then less sensitised during sex. Try masterbating with a less firmer grip or just two fingers.
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Just last night I came real close to finishing during sex!…
Have deathgrip and recovering from PED… I was focusing on her sexy body and the fact that she was really enjoying herself while I was in her. I really like grabbing her ankles and spreading her legs… That got me as hard as I’ve been in years and the sensations in my dick were incredible!
Came close a couple times, but wore myself out…. Best sex of my life.
(54yrs)
My experience brother I never used to cum at all too thanks to porn addiction however after quoting porn and mastrubation for months now I cum like no man’s business and I also enjoy sex more so my advice quit porn and masturbation and making will happen . All the best brother
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Hey man - I’ve never been able to cum through sex (30 years old). A big part of it is porn addiction. It’s completely different to sex and if you get too used to it then sex just won’t do it for you. I’m trying to get better but I’m only on the start of my journey. I think it’s about retraining your brain to get excited by your partner and being present in the moment. It’s a lot easier to do that when you can change a porn video if it isn’t doing much for you. I’ve just got to commit for the long term and see it in the same way as giving up cigarettes. Good luck.
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I need to quit porn. How can I quite