I’ve been with my fiancee for almost 8 years now, but over the past couple years it’s gotten harder and harder to cum during sex. I know she really wants me to get off, but the pressure of feeling like I’m disappointing her by not, makes it worse.
Our sex life is terrible because I’d rather just jerk off than have sex because at least I know I’ll get off. I also recently learned about death grip and feel like this is a big reason why I don’t enjoy sex that much. I’ve been jerking off the same way for so long, that having just typical penitration sex doesn’t feel like anything.
I’m trying the typical suggestions, like avoiding porn, switching up masterbation techniques and reducing my masterbation frequency.
Been like 2 years since I’ve actually gotten off during sex, I’m hoping things change soon…
