How to have penetrative sex if you go soft?

šŸ† Erection issues
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Hey team, suppose you lose your erection during sex, is it possible to continue penetration using soft penis?

What do you guys think? If yes then how to do it?

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Iā€™m having the same problem, stiff as a plank all night until I get down to business and then I seem to get slowly soft and canā€™t get hard enough to penetrate. Physically, I know everythings working well but with me I think itā€™s a mental problem. Unless you can get erect again and stay erect, I think penetrative sex is not going to heppen that night. Iā€™m just working on the Mojo exercises to try and keep in the right headspace to keep myself hard for longer.

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Last weekend I went trying to get in. Panicked!
Collected my thoughts. I got thisā€¦
I improvised. Started rubbing her pussy with Mr Softee. Also used my thumb on her clit. She came again. (I had gone down for a while before intercourse) she was encouraging, loving, understanding and supportive.
I also spend some time giving her feet attention since they were in my faceā€¦. (Iā€™m a foot guy too) All that and me stroking myself was enough to get me back in the game. It was about a60% semi, but enough to go slow for 5-10 min. She came again with my fingers on her cloth and Mr. Softeeā€¦
Small victory, but a baby step for me!

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I donā€™t think itā€™s possible to penetrate with a soft penis even if you have a really long flaccid one. Especially if youā€™re a grower not a shower, when itā€™s only long when erect.

Itā€™s possible to cum when soft though when experiencing severe psychological ED and your hands and feet are tingling and you use brute force to cum anyway. That has happened to me sometimes, but when thereā€™s no psychologist ED I am hard as a rock and cum normally with an erection, this whole thing is baffling.

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I think the key is to keep trying and continue having sex on the coming days. If you lower the frequency then thatā€™s the problem. My problem is i avoided it cz of the inner critic that makes me nervous

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It is very normal to lose an erecting (slightly) during sex. Often men will not notice this, However if you do begin to ā€˜spectateā€™ your penis - you can get into your head and it might be difficult to stay hard. Follow the Mojo exercises, build up to the Wax and Waning and you will soon be confident about getting your erections back during sex. : )

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